Tuesday 26 July 2016

How to Overcome The Fear of Asking a Girl Out

There are many people who are scared or shy to approach girls just because of rejection. This instinctive emotion paralysed and hinders us from asking a girl of our choice out.

Having a fear of rejection is something natural but you have to conquer this fear to get what you want. You may have all the good qualities women want from their man but all of them will be useless if you are scared or shy to approach women.

I learnt a lesson from a friend of mine who had a crush on this pretty girl, but he was scared of rejection to ask her out. some years later, they met in a shopping mall and he found out that she have feelings for him. He then told him how he felt about her too, then she replied: "Why didn't you tell me?" But it's too late because she had already gotten married. I hope this is a lesson for all men who are scared of rejection

Asking a girl out is not a tough task if you have the confidence in you. The following steps will help you overcome your fears and gain confidence to approach any woman of your choice.

Self-Esteem: Your level of influence starts with what you think about yourself. You have to think positive about yourself before you can convince someone else to think positive about you. If you believe you can do it, then you will without been scared.

Practise for your friends: Conquer your fears and shyness by approaching a girl for your friends and families. When you do this over and over again, you will see it's no big deal and the fears and shyness will vanish.

Fear not: Don't lose your confidence when women say "NO" because she isn't really rejecting you but there must be a reason for that. Just move on to the next woman that have the interest in you.