Friday 19 August 2016

How to Flirt Via Facebook Texts



Facebook is a big jungle to flirt and get a date anywhere around the globe. It's very easy if you know how to go about it. If you're really good at flirting on the internet, you can get anyone you like from online to face to face meeting. But to do all these, you really need to be a flirting expert. I have written some tricks to aid your facebook flirting. Follow these steps and start flirting without being creepy.

1.  Set up a good profile

Brushing up your profile is very important. Set up a good profile and let your profile be filled with information about you. Upload a cool picture of yourself and other useful informations. But don't use personal information and nude pictures as a profile picture.

2.  Text before sending friend request

If the person you want to chat with is not in your friend list, it's advisable to text the person before sending friend requests. The person you want to send a friend request to is a stranger and doesn't know whether you exist or not. So text him/her and after he/she reply, then you can send a friend request.

It's very rare for someone who doesn't know you to accept your friend request except those who brag with followers and likes.

You can start your conversation with "Hey! I really never do this but your picture wants me to talk to you. You really have an inviting smile and there is no reason for me to move on without saying hello! I'll be glad if you reply".

3.  Don't babble

Don't update your facebook status too often. Doing this will make you seem desperate and valueless.

Some people do this in order to get followers and likes. They will post anything just to get facebook likes. e.g When they're in the bathroom, they will snap themselves and upload it. They will do that in everything they're doing. This is very wrong and it's a big turn off generally. You can never get a serious person by doing that.

4.  Make your chatting partner laugh

Generally, everyone wants someone with balls and laughing muscle. If you text boring messages, your messages might be ignored. So start your conversation with something funny and exciting. If you succeed in making your chatting partner laugh, he/she won't hesitate to reply your text. But be very careful while making jokes in order not to get blocked. Use smiley faces to end your jokes so that they won't misunderstand you. If you can't make your chatting partner laugh, don't bother to text.

5.  Don't text to bore

Don't start your conversation with "Hi" "How're You". This is a very wrong flirtatious texts. That person might not even reply your texts. And if the person should reply your text, he/she is definitely joking with you and will never take you serious.


6. Keep it light and short

Attract your chatting partner with short and sweet messages. Generally, long text tends to be a very boring. Average people will hardly read 3 paragraphs  before ignoring your text.

Send out messages that aren't more than 1 to 2 paragraphs.

7.  Tease

This is a very good flirtatious technique if you know how to go about it without been creepy. Tease your chatting partner playfully and make sure he/she knows that you aren't serious about it. Also, use a smiley face to end your text.

8.  Compliment

This is also one of the flirting secrets. Don't let compliment be left out while you're flirting. Always compliment your chatting partner now and then. If you like something about your chatting partner, compliment him/her for that.

But be careful while making compliments in order not to over do. Make sure your compliments are sincere. Don't give out an insincere compliments. If your chatting partner should know you're giving out insincere compliments, he/she will be turned off and all your efforts will be ruined immediately.

Don't give out a compliment like, "You're the most beautiful girl in the word". "You're the most handsome guy ever". These are very wrong.

Use something like, "I like your weaves, it makes you look gorgeous. "You have an inviting smile".

9.  Create connection.

Stop using "I" "You". Instead, use "We", "Us".  Using these two words will create an intimate connection between both of you. Also, use your chatting partners name frequently while texting him/her.  You can also give him/her a cute and funny nickname name and make sure you use it often. The nickname symbolises love and affection.

Examples of  nickname for guys and their meaning:


  • Cassanova: A charming and caring guy. This name will make him feel special. 
  • Other half: It means he is your other half. He will be happy to hear this.
  • Mine: It means he's yours. This name is super cute.
  • Mr right: It means he's the right person for you. This name will make him feel good.
  • King: It means he's your king while you're his queen. This name is cute.
Examples of  nicknames for girls and their meaning. 

  • Lover girl: If she's the one you love.
  • Queen: If she's your queen.
  • Sunshine: If she lighten up your life.
  • Wifey: A girl you plan to make your future wife.
  • My all: Is she means everything to you.

10.  Talk about common interests

This is another flirty way to chat on facebook. You can pick up something in your chatting partners profile and turn it into a conversation. But be very careful here. Don't talk about religion, racism or handicap. Your partner might get angry with these topics and might block you.

11. Respect your chatting partner's space

If your chatting partner didn't reply your text, leave it and don't bother texting a new message or get angry for that. He/she might be busy or not interested in any conversation. Always let your chatting partner text back before sending out a new text.

If you should continue sending out a message without getting a reply, you will seem desperate and needy. Some guys will even go to the extent of abusing their chatting partner if they didn't get any reply. 

Examples of such messages are: "Hey, am I not good enough for you?" "Hey! why don't you reply my message? you, son of a bitch, fuck you!"

You'll be blocked instantly if you should text this message to someone. 

12.  Play safe

Don't reveal too much about yourself on facebook. There are many scams on facebook so be very careful. Don't give out your number, address, email account and other personal informations until you have known each other well enough.

Make sure all personal information's are hidden in your profile. 


Tips 

1.  Always meet in public place till you know each other well enough.
2.  Use emoticons always
3.  Be yourself while flirting. Don't lie to your partner. 
4.  Use your pictures in your profile. Don't use someone else pictures.
5.  Don't always be the one to text first.
6.  Don't chat too often.
7.  Always check your grammar mistakes before sending out your message.

Warning

1.  Don't be a regular commenter on their posts. 
2.  If you're a man, avoid using the word "Let me know". It turns women off easily. 
3.  Avoid posting all your life details on facebook.
4.  Always be the one to first end your conversation.
5.  Don't use emoticons like. "I'm angry".  " I'm being silly". e.t.c

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