Come to think of it: Have you heard or seen some women who collect money from their rich men to spend on their poor lover?.
That means having a successful relationship with women is not about money or looks. But it's about knowing what women wants from men and not making the common mistakes most men make.
These are the common mistakes men should avoid in a relationship.
1. Being too dependent: This is one of the traits that irritate women. It's good when both the partners act as each other's support system but women secretly dislike it when their man is too emotionally dependant on them. They don't want their man to look up to them always before making decisions. Don't be weak.
2. Giving her often gifts: Everyone loves presents but it has a limit. Most men believe women are attracted by giving them various kinds of gifts. But this is very wrong because it takes value away from a relationship and she will think you don't deserve her that's why you are showering her with expensive gifts in order to keep her around. Be wise.
3. Always trying to please women: Most guys always try to please a woman by calling them always, complimenting them, e.t.c in order to prove they love them. But the fact is that woman secretly dislikes it. This is very wrong in a relationship.
Upsetting her at times is not a bad thing but don't harm or abuse her.
4. Not listening to them: relationship will be weakened when guys don't listen to their women. Always listen to them when they talk, understand them and know what they want. Your chances of winning her over will never be diminished because women love a good listener.
5. Embrace your goal: When she sees you embracing your goal, she will be attracted to you because women want their man to be goal oriented. keep moving forward as a person,keep growing, keep pursuing your goals, and never stop trying.
6. Regular meeting: Men believe regular meeting with their woman at the beginning of their relationship is very important. But the fact is that "it doesn't attract real women". Trying to see woman daily with the aim of proving your love to her is very wrong. It takes away value from a relationship. It means you don't feel secured and you have no personality to impress her that's why you are trying to meet her regularly. Don't appear to be a weakling.
7. Not understanding relationship: Most men don't understand their relationship. A relationship needs a constant effort to be kept alive and healthy. Don't allow it to drive itself and don't forget romance.
I hope these tips are helpful for men who are in relationships, and those who are about to jump into it.
