How to Flirt With Your Boss Without Getting Fired

Did you like your boss and you don't want it to affect your job? You can make your boss love you, and respect you as a person without affecting your job or professional relationship.

Flirting with your boss in nothing new because a large percentage of married couples found each other at their workplace. Read this blog and start flirting with your boss without being sacked.

1.  Be confident

Confidence is the key. You won't be able to flirt effectively if you're not confident enough. You visualize success instead of fearing failure.

Having a fear of rejection is something natural but you have to conquer this fear in other to get what you want. You may have all the qualities your boss wants in women but it will be useless if you're scared or shy to flirt with your boss.

2. Be yourself

No one would want to build a relationship with a phony person. So don't be somebody you're not and don't try to impress your boss. The essence of flirting with your boss is to get on a date with him. If he should find out that you're a phony person, he will be turned off immediately and this will ruin your efforts to  make him like you.

3.  Be feminine

When you're flirting with your boss, dress attractively without violating the dress code of your workplace. I don't mean you should dress like someone going to Aso Rock to meet the president. Dress smartly and use pieces of jewelry.

Wear clothes that will bring out the very best in you and learn how to use your makeup. This will attract him because men are turned on by what they see.

4.  Choose a good scent

Men like girls who smell good. You have to smell good in the presence of your boss. You can easily get him attracted to you when you smell incredibly good. Choose the right perfume and don't spray too much.

5.  Be a good listener

Listening attentively to your boss while he is talking is very important while flirting. Listen to whatever he says even if you aren't interested in the conversation. Ask some questions about what he said and give a funny comment on it. This shows your enthusiasm and makes you look approachable.

6.  Make eye contact

This is very important while flirting.Eye contact is an effective tool that can make someone like you. Eye contact can communicate your interest without saying a word.

Try to make eye contact with your boss during a meeting, when he's talking to you or complimenting you. But be very careful here not to over do. Too much eye contact can make you seem desperate and it's a big turn-off to men.

7.  Smile

This is another flirtatious trick. Smiling attracts men easily. When next you're having a conversation with him, flash your pearly whites. Smiling makes you look friendlier and more approachable. If you want to make him like you, you'av to smile at him because men can't approach a surly woman.

8.  Compliment him

Guys love to be complimented. If you like something about your boss, appreciate him for that. This will make him feel noticed.Appreciating your boss gesture positively will make you stick out in his mind.

9.  Use your hair

Men are beguiled with cute hair. Men love it when girls run their hands through their hair. Flipping and playing with your hair in front of the boss you're flirting with will draw his attention to your lustrous look.

10.  Be nice to everyone

He will definitely notice you if you're nice to everyone instead of him alone. Treat everyone at your workplace the way you treat your boss and be a cool person. The more you do this, the more he would  be attracted to you.

11.  Pay attention to signals

When you're flirting with your boss make sure you pay a close attention to his signals. If he's reciprocating your eye contact and smile, it means you're getting positive results then you can continue. But if he's not reciprocating your smiles and eye contact, it means you're getting negative results and it's advisable you stop flirting immediately in other not to embarrassed.

12. Linger soft touches

This is another flirty move to convey your interest on your boss. Linger soft touches on your boss while he's talking to you and pretend it wasn't intentional. This will make him think of you often.

Don't try this with your boss if you're not getting positive results.

13.  Be subtle

The purpose of flirting is to express your feelings indirectly. So make your moves in a subtle way and don't let anyone in your workplace know about this.

Smile a little, laugh a little, flip your weave a bit and don't hold too much eye contact.


Tips

• Learn to keep cool at work. Offices are a gossipy environment, so calm down when someone gets you angry. This will make him notice you.
• Give suggestions on how to solve a problem instead of complaining. This will make your boss think of you
• Try to finish your assigned project on or before the deadline. This is also helpful.
• Be punctual and hard working.

Warning

• Be attentive to how you're being received. If you're getting a negative result, stop immediately.
• Avoid sexual touches at your workplace. Example: Shoulder rubs, placing hands on someone's knees. e.t.c.
• Make a research on relationship guidelines of your workplace before proceeding. If a relationship is not allowed in your workplace, it's better you don't flirt in other not to lose your job.

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How to Flirt Via Facebook Texts

Facebook is a big jungle to flirt and get a date anywhere around the globe. It's very easy if you know how to go about it. If you're really good at flirting on the internet, you can get anyone you like from online to face to face meeting. But to do all these, you really need to be a flirting expert. I have written some tricks to aid your facebook flirting. Follow these steps and start flirting without being creepy.

1.  Set up a good profile

Brushing up your profile is very important. Set up a good profile and let your profile be filled with information about you. Upload a cool picture of yourself and other useful informations. But don't use personal information and nude pictures as a profile picture.

2.  Text before sending friend request

If the person you want to chat with is not in your friend list, it's advisable to text the person before sending friend requests. The person you want to send a friend request to is a stranger and doesn't know whether you exist or not. So text him/her and after he/she reply, then you can send a friend request.

It's very rare for someone who doesn't know you to accept your friend request except those who brag with followers and likes.

You can start your conversation with "Hey! I really never do this but your picture wants me to talk to you. You really have an inviting smile and there is no reason for me to move on without saying hello! I'll be glad if you reply".

3.  Don't babble

Don't update your facebook status too often. Doing this will make you seem desperate and valueless.

Some people do this in order to get followers and likes. They will post anything just to get facebook likes. e.g When they're in the bathroom, they will snap themselves and upload it. They will do that in everything they're doing. This is very wrong and it's a big turn off generally. You can never get a serious person by doing that.

4.  Make your chatting partner laugh

Generally, everyone wants someone with balls and laughing muscle. If you text boring messages, your messages might be ignored. So start your conversation with something funny and exciting. If you succeed in making your chatting partner laugh, he/she won't hesitate to reply your text. But be very careful while making jokes in order not to get blocked. Use smiley faces to end your jokes so that they won't misunderstand you. If you can't make your chatting partner laugh, don't bother to text.

5.  Don't text to bore

Don't start your conversation with "Hi" "How're You". This is a very wrong flirtatious texts. That person might not even reply your texts. And if the person should reply your text, he/she is definitely joking with you and will never take you serious.


6. Keep it light and short

Attract your chatting partner with short and sweet messages. Generally, long text tends to be a very boring. Average people will hardly read 3 paragraphs  before ignoring your text.

Send out messages that aren't more than 1 to 2 paragraphs.

7.  Tease

This is a very good flirtatious technique if you know how to go about it without been creepy. Tease your chatting partner playfully and make sure he/she knows that you aren't serious about it. Also, use a smiley face to end your text.

8.  Compliment

This is also one of the flirting secrets. Don't let compliment be left out while you're flirting. Always compliment your chatting partner now and then. If you like something about your chatting partner, compliment him/her for that.

But be careful while making compliments in order not to over do. Make sure your compliments are sincere. Don't give out an insincere compliments. If your chatting partner should know you're giving out insincere compliments, he/she will be turned off and all your efforts will be ruined immediately.

Don't give out a compliment like, "You're the most beautiful girl in the word". "You're the most handsome guy ever". These are very wrong.

Use something like, "I like your weaves, it makes you look gorgeous. "You have an inviting smile".

9.  Create connection.

Stop using "I" "You". Instead, use "We", "Us".  Using these two words will create an intimate connection between both of you. Also, use your chatting partners name frequently while texting him/her.  You can also give him/her a cute and funny nickname name and make sure you use it often. The nickname symbolises love and affection.

Examples of  nickname for guys and their meaning:

• Cassanova: A charming and caring guy. This name will make him feel special. 
• Other half: It means he is your other half. He will be happy to hear this.
• Mine: It means he's yours. This name is super cute.
• Mr right: It means he's the right person for you. This name will make him feel good.
• King: It means he's your king while you're his queen. This name is cute.

Examples of  nicknames for girls and their meaning. 

• Lover girl: If she's the one you love.
• Queen: If she's your queen.
• Sunshine: If she lighten up your life.
• Wifey: A girl you plan to make your future wife.
• My all: Is she means everything to you.

10.  Talk about common interests

This is another flirty way to chat on facebook. You can pick up something in your chatting partners profile and turn it into a conversation. But be very careful here. Don't talk about religion, racism or handicap. Your partner might get angry with these topics and might block you.

11. Respect your chatting partner's space

If your chatting partner didn't reply your text, leave it and don't bother texting a new message or get angry for that. He/she might be busy or not interested in any conversation. Always let your chatting partner text back before sending out a new text.

If you should continue sending out a message without getting a reply, you will seem desperate and needy. Some guys will even go to the extent of abusing their chatting partner if they didn't get any reply. 

Examples of such messages are: "Hey, am I not good enough for you?" "Hey! why don't you reply my message? you, son of a bitch, fuck you!"

You'll be blocked instantly if you should text this message to someone. 

12.  Play safe

Don't reveal too much about yourself on facebook. There are many scams on facebook so be very careful. Don't give out your number, address, email account and other personal informations until you have known each other well enough.

Make sure all personal information's are hidden in your profile. 

Tips 

1.  Always meet in public place till you know each other well enough.

2.  Use emoticons always

3.  Be yourself while flirting. Don't lie to your partner. 

4.  Use your pictures in your profile. Don't use someone else pictures.

5.  Don't always be the one to text first.

6.  Don't chat too often.

7.  Always check your grammar mistakes before sending out your message.

Warning

1.  Don't be a regular commenter on their posts. 

2.  If you're a man, avoid using the word "Let me know". It turns women off easily. 

3.  Avoid posting all your life details on facebook.

4.  Always be the one to first end your conversation.

5.  Don't use emoticons like. "I'm angry".  " I'm being silly". e.t.c

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How to Flirt with a girl over text: Flirty Texts to Make Her Like You

Wondering on how to flirt with a girl over text to maker her like you? A lot of people do. That's why I wrote some flirty tricks on how to flirt with a girl.

Whether you want to flirt with your friend or you want to entice a cute stranger over texts, you can make her like you if you know how to text the right messages without being creepy. Even if you're an expert, you can learn more tricks and add them to your flirtatious texts.

Master the following flirtatious tricks and start flirting like an expert.

1.  Avoid spelling and grammar mistakes

Generally, spelling mistakes are a great turn off for everyone. So when you're texting messages, check them properly before sending them out. Also, avoid big grammars that won't make her understand what you wrote. If you should screw up here, she won't bother to read your texts talkless of replying.

Example: If you use "their" in place of "there", she would be turned off immediately.

2. Keep it short and sweet

 Attract her with short and sweet messages. Long messages tend to be boring to everyone. Average women would hardly read a paragraph or two before ignoring your text. So don't screw up.

Send her messages that are not more than two to three paragraphs.

3.  Don't be predictable

The worst thing you can do is to be a boring and predictable guy. This mistake is very common among guys so you step out of the other guys who did things negatively and stand the chance to win her over easily. She might not reply your message if you ask boring questions.

Avoid texting messages like "Hi!", "How're you?" "How was your day going?" these messages are very boring to women. The fact is that she has received such  messages several times from other guys and she will continue to receive it. These messages are a big turn off to women.

So you start something different and unique by texting something like: "Hey trouble maker! whats the latest? then you use a smiley face to end it for her to know you aren't serious about it.

If you don't know what to write, it's better not texting her.

4.  Make her laugh

Women tend to love someone who could make them laugh. If you can succeed in making her laugh, she won't hesitate in replying your messages and will always want more till she's hooked up.

Women get bored easily, so start your conversation with something funny and exciting. No woman will ever say "NO" to someone who could make her laugh and have fun with. But be very careful with your jokes so that she won't misunderstand you and avoid making vulgar jokes.

5.  Use emoticons

Since there is no body language over text message, let emoticon do the work for you. Girls secretly love emoticons so use it often in your messages.

The main purpose of using emoticons is to express your feeling since she can't see your face or body language. It also gives more fun to your conversation.

There is also a possibility that she can misunderstand you when you're flirting with her over text since she can't see your face or body language. But with the use of emoticons, such might not happen if you use you use emoticons that are relevant to the text you're sending out.

But don't overdo when you're using emoticons. Using too many emoticons will seem like you're insecure.

6.  Use pictures

This is also important if you want to succeed in flirting with her over text. Update her with funny pictures of yourself or something else. This would create intimacy between both of you.

Don't screw up here. Don't send dick pictures or snapping everything you do and start sending it to her. Women are not interested in this. Just make it simple and funny.

7.  Compliment her

This is also important while flirting. Women love to be complimented so compliment her now and then. If you like something about her, don't forget to compliment her for that.

Give out sincere compliments so that you won't turn her off. Giving out insincere compliment might backfire so don't be creepy.

Avoid common mistakes other guys make while complimenting. Example "You're the most beautiful girl in the world". Using this kind of compliment to women seems boring to them and she will be turned off immediately. The reason is that such compliment is insincere and she has heard them so many times so she won't be moved by such compliment.

Try something different like, "I like that shirt you wore yesterday, it makes you look gorgeous". "You're one of the most intelligent girls have ever met in my life".

8.  Tease in a comic way

This is also very important while flirting but make sure she knows that you aren't serious about it. It's better to tease  women in a comic way because it attracts them easily. Use smiley face to end your teasing messages for her to know you aren't serious about it.

You can tease in a comic way by, "Mimicking her texts" "hey! stop making me think about you, I am busy".

9.  Use her name or pet name

Using her name or pet name while texting will create intimacy between both of you. It's very important especially when you're complimenting her. It will create special feelings between both of you.

You can give her funny and cute pet name according to her personality. Example, "cutie" "troublemaker" "missy" "angel eyes" "lucky charm" "love bug" "little monkey". e.t.c.

10.  Ask her questions

Ask her questions about her while flirting with her. This will let you know what she likes and dislikes. It also means you care about her.

But avoid asking interrogative questions. Don't ask her questions that could be answered with yes or no. Ask questions that will give her time to elaborate.

11.  Be yourself

Always be yourself while flirting. Stand out from those guys who claim to be whom they are not. The essence of flirting with her is to set up a date with her. When you seem different when she meets you in person, she will be turned off and all you efforts to win her over will be ruined.

12.  Arouse her districtly

If you have been doing these steps perfectly, she must have been interested in you. So it's time to know. No flirtatious texts will be complete without a district arousal. Make her think dirty without talking dirty.

Example: You can tell her " Hey babe! I just got out of the shower" "I'm trying my new clothes".

Say something like this after having a long conversation with her. If she replies with something flirty then you know she has been hooked up.

If she replies with something like " Let me see" it simply means she's getting more interested in you.

13.  Don't be clingy

If she's not responding to your texts, don't bother sending a new text or get angry. She might be busy or not interested in chatting with you. Just try to get her point and respect her personality space.

14.  Don't be readily available

Don't text her too often. Average guys believed texting a girl frequently will attract her. But this happens to be a big turn off to women. It will seem like you' throwing yourself at her and you will look desperate.

Leaving a girl to miss you is very important. She will desperately wait for your message.

15.  Leave her wanting more

This is a very important flirting skill. You should know when to end your conversation . Always be the first to end your conversation.

Never keep a conversation going to the extent of running out of interesting words. If you run out of interesting words, the conversation will end up awkward and boring. So leave her wanting more by ending the conversation yourself.

The best way to end the conversation is when she seems to enjoy the chat. Just tell her you have to go and will text her later. This will make her think of you often.

Tips 

1. Don't always be the one to text her first.

2. Avoid using the word "Let me know". e.g "Did you love me? if you do, let me know".

3.  Don't talk about religion, racism or handicap.

4.  When she's using emoticons in her texts often, it simply means she also like you. Girls use emoticons for a guy they like.

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How to cook Egusi ( Melon Seeds ) Soup: 3 easy methods to cook your egusi soup

Egusi ( Melon seeds ) soup is one of the most popular and cherished Nigerian soups. It's prepared by most tribes in Nigeria with different cooking methods and different names. It's called "Efo elegusi" in Yoruba, "Ofe egusi" in Igbo and "Miyan gushi" in Hausa.

Egusi is also common in West Africa. It's enriched with some nutrients that are good for the body such as "Minerals, fat, amino acid, carbohydrates, fibre, and protein.

I described just 3 methods on this page with the same ingredients.

Ingredients
1.  500mg of grounded egusi ( Melon seeds )

2.  Preferred beef and fish of choice. ( Turkey, cow skin, prawn, dry fish, stock fish,cow stripe, e.t.c )

3.  3 tablespoons of ground crayfish

4.  Chopped Onions

5.  4 cooking spoons of red palm oil for frying method/ 1 cooking spoon for a caking method.

6.  Vegetables ( Nigerian pumpkin leaves, Spinach or Bitter leaves )

7.  Locust beans ( optional )

8. Salt and bouillon

9.  Chopped pepper ( scotch bonnet )

10. Tomatoes ( for method 3 alone )

Things to do before cooking
1. Rinse the turkey and parboil it with water, salt and bouillon till it's soft.

2.  Rinse the vegetable and cut into pieces.

Recipes for method 1 ( Frying method )

1.   Heat up your Cooking pot

2.  Pour palm oil into the pot and wait till it's hot

3.  Add chopped onions, pepper and locust beans

4.  Add blended melon and stir to avoid burning

5.  Leave for some minutes

6.  Add ground crayfish

 7.  Add stock ( Water from parboiled turkey) or ordinary water but the stock gives more taste than ordinary water

8.  Add preferred beef and fish

9.  Cover for some minutes

10.  Add bouillon and salt.

 11.  Add vegetable.

12.  Stir gently

13.  Cover and allow the vegetable to steam. Your egusi soup is ready to be served.

Recipes for method 2 ( Caking method )


1.  Mix the blended egusi with a little water and stir till it becomes a thick paste. Set aside

2.  Heat up your pot and pour 1 cooking spoon of palm oil into the pot

3.  Add balls of egusi paste

4.  Fry for 2 minutes

5.  Add stock ( water from parboiled beef ) or water. But the stock gives better taste than ordinary water.

6.  Cook for another 2 minutes

7.  Add pepper

8.  Add ground crayfish, locust beans, salt and bouillon

9.  Cook for another 3 minutes

10.  Add preferred beef and fish

11.  Add vegetables and stir gently

12.  Allow vegetables to steam. Your Egusi soup is ready

Recipes for Method 3 ( Egusi without palm oil )

1.  Mix the blended egusi with a little water and stir till it becomes a thick paste. Then set aside

2.  Heat up your cooking pot and add 2 cooking spoons of vegetable oil

3.  Add chopped onions and grind tomatoes

4. Add preferred fish, beef and stock ( water from parboiled beef ). If there is no stock, use water but the stock is preferable than ordinary water.

5.  Add egusi balls.

6. Add vegetables and stir gently. Add some water  if needed.

7.  Add ground crayfish, pepper, salt, bouillon and locust beans.

8.  Cover and leave to simmer for 5 minutes. Your egusi soup is ready to be served.

Tips

1.  Add stock before adding salt in other to avoid over salting your soup.

2.  When it's cooked, you will see the oil floating on the top.

3. Stir frequently to avoid burning your food. If it should burn, it will become tasteless.


Warning

1.  If you're using bitter leaves make sure it's properly washed to remove all bitterness. Wash and squeeze several times in a big bowl with water. 

2. If you're watching weight, please limit your egusi intake. Because it has about 48% fat. If you add all the ingredients with your egusi, the total calories will be 700.

How to Flirt With a Guy Over Text

Flirting over text can seem uneasy but it's really not when you know how to do it the right way and how to avoid the common mistakes many make over texting. Flirting with a guy over text has a lot of fun and it's a great way to flirt with your guy because you can easily hack into his mind and make him forget other girls exist.

Master the following tips on how to flirt with a guy over text and make him go crazy about you.

1.  Be humorous

Humour is the key to success. The best way to start a conversation with a guy over text is to make him laugh. Attract him with short and funny text. Just keep it simple and things will work out smoothly. 

Example: Instead of starting your conversation with boring questions like"Hi" "Whats up?". Start by "sending him emoticons", playfully call him his pet name, or make a funny joke about his name.

2.  Tease him playfully

Teasing him playfully can make create intimacy between both of you and him attracted to you. ut make sure he understands that you're teasing him. You can tease him by the way he talks or something else. Don't over do to make in other not to get him angry. Add smiley and winks to show it's not frying. 

3.  Compliment him:

Everyone loves to be complimented. When you compliment a guy for his handsome look, or you compliment him for what he did for you, or you're such a smooth talker. This will make him try  harder to please you. But make sure your compliments are sincere.

4.  Use his name:

Using his name occasionally while texting him will create intimacy between both of you. Always use his name in every text most especially when you're complimenting him or your first text. 

5.  Keep it short

Use short and sweet texts to attract him. Long messages turn guys off easily. Just make your texts  simple, sweet understandable and don't make it boring.

6. Use a lot of emoticons 

Since there is no body language while texting, you can use emoticons to express your feelings. Using emoticons are flirty and fun when you use them in texts. e.g Use "winks" and "smiley faces" when teasing him. This shows him that you're joking that you're not serious about the teasing.

7.  Don't be clingy

Wait for his reply before sending out another text. If he's not responding to your texts, leave him and don't bother sending another text. If a guy is not responding to your texts, it simply means he's busy or not interested in the conversation.

8. Ask questions that need elaboration answers

Asking him questions that will give him a chance to elaborate is a great way to flirt over text. Instead of asking him questions that will be replied with yes or no, ask him questions that will make him think before replying. Then you can the answer to a flirty conversation. 

9.  Be the one to end the conversation

Always be the one to first end the conversation before he stops replying your texts. This will make him want more and make his jaw drop. But let him know you enjoy the conversation with him and you're looking forward to the next conversation.

Warning

1.  Spell check your texts before sending it out to avoid mistakes

2.  Don't Throw yourself at him 

3.  Don't be the one to text him first

4.  Don't send messages that you wouldn't let anyone to read. e.g sexting 

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Check this out: How to Flirt Online

How to Flirt Online

Do you have a problem flirting from the internet to face to face meeting? A lot of people do, so that's why I compiled some secrets for your online dating success. Learning how to flirt on the internet is a skill everyone needs to know. Here're some tips that can help in your online dating game.

1.  Be yourself

The Internet is full of scams and fake people. Don't try to fool your chatting partner and don't be pretentious. Just  be yourself and things will move on smoothly.

2.  Humour is the key

Always use funny jokes to entice your chatting partner. The worst thing you can do while flirting online is to bore your chatting partner. Also, the best way to start your conversation is making playful jokes. Try to make a funny joke about his or her profile or username before saying hello. example: Say "There is no way I can't ask about your profile picture, where was the great picture taken?. But don't overdo while making jokes in other not to be blocked.

3. Avoid grammar mistakes

 Be very careful with your spelling and grammars. poor spelling and grammar are big turn off. Keep your messages short and sweet. Make sure you read your message to correct the mistakes before sending out.

4. Give out compliments

This is very important while flirting on the internet. Everyone loved to be complimented. Pick up something you like about your chatting partner and complement him or her for that. But make sure your compliments are sincere. Sending out insincere compliments simply means you're fooling him or her and this will damage your flirting game.


Warning

1.  Avoid sending sexting photographs.

2.  Always meet in a public place until you know each other well enough.

3.  Avoid giving out personal pieces of information or asking for them until you know each other well enough.

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How to Flirt With Girls

Flirting with a girl might seem uneasy, but it really doesn't have to be. Flirting with a girl is not about throwing yourself at her, it's about standing out from other guys she had met all day long.

Buying expensive gifts, taking her out in fancy dinners is creating  a huge hindrance for you. The more you do things wrong, the more things get worst.  Master the following techniques and get any girl you want instantly.

1.  Don't show your interest in her

This may sound tricky but you need to hide your interest when you're flirting with a girl. Pretend as if you don't like her and keep her guessing. This may sound uneasy but it's actually the best way to get her attracted to you.

2.  Don't try too hard

Girls hate a desperate person. The best way to flirt with girls is to show them who you really are. Don't  be fake, don't be pretentious, don't tell her you're better than any other guys. You will lose her interest in you when she finds out you're trying to fool her.

3.  Choose the perfect scent

Girls like guys who smell good. You have to smell good in the present of the girl you're flirting with. You can easily get her attracted to you when you smell incredibly good. Choose the right perfume and don't spray too much.

4.  Make her laugh

Girls like someone they can have fun with. Don't be a boring guy. Pick up something about her and turn it into a joke but be very careful while making jokes with her. Don't use vulgar jokes. If you can succeed in making her laugh, she will be deeply attracted to you.

5.  Eye contact

This is the one if the best method to get noticed by a girl. Eye contact is very powerful and communicates your desires without a single word. But don't overdo it. Avoid unblinking stare at her. Girls find it unpleasant when you stare at them without blinking your eyes.

6.  Watch out for flirting signals

If she seems interested in you, she will give you flirting signals with body language. Example, she will make good eye contact with you, she will smile at you e.t.c. Watch out for different flirting signals from her and make sure you flirt back. This shows you're interested too.

7.  Make the first move

Girls tend to like guys who make the first move. Making the first move shows you're interested in her and confident enough. Think of a way to start a conversation with her and keep the ball rolling. Even if you're not bold enough at first, the confidence will boost when she responds.

8.  Don't hang out too much

This is one if the biggest mistake in flirting techniques or even any relationship. Trying to see a girl too often is very wrong. She will see you as an insecure person and will lose her interest in you in no time. Letting a girl miss you will make her think of you and increase the attraction.

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You can also read: How to ask women out: The magic secrets to have any woman you want instantly.

8 Huge Mistakes Women Make In Relationships

So many women are struggling with their relationship without knowing what they're doing wrong. Nobody's perfect but there are some huge mistakes some women make that breaks their relationship easily. If women can stop these mistakes, they will have a healthier and happier relationship.

1.  You don't know your value

Some women are attracted to unavailable men, some chase men who treat them like shit over and over again and still believe he will change, some can't ask for what they deserve from their men. If you're doing this, you'av undervalued yourself. No man can be attracted to the woman who allows him to treat her badly. You deserve love and respect from someone who loves you, so wait for the right person and stop undervaluing yourself.

2.  You don't appreciate him

You should appreciate your man for what he does for you, because men love to be appreciated. When he does something good for you, make sure you acknowledge him for that. The more you appreciate him, the more he will he try to please you.

3.  You tried to change him

This is one of the biggest mistakes women make in a relationship. some women will say " if he really loves me, he will change to please me. But this is one of the things that turns men off easily. When you're into a relationship, you need to take that man for exactly who he is, and not who you want him to be. Trying to change him means you don't love him, you only want to turn him to someone to fill your needs.

4.  Yelling at him when he talks to other women

Some women are very jealous when they see their man with other women. Some hack into their man's phone, looking for suspicious messages and flipping out at any message sent to women. But this is a big turn off to men, it shows you're insecure and you are struggling hard to be with him.

5.  Expecting him to read your mind and know what you want without telling him

This is one of the most serious mistakes in a relationship. Some women believed if their man really loves them, they should read their mind and know what they want without expressing their need. But this is definitely weakening your relationship slowly. Expressing your needs will help both sides to fulfil each other's needs.

6.  You expect him to fulfil all your needs

Your partner is not meant to fulfil all your needs. No man is capable of satisfying you. Develop your own happiness and don't rely on anyone.

7.  You don't understand men

Men are different from women. They are simple creatures who's ready to serve anyone who can understand and bring out the very best in them. You have to understand men's need and desires in order to have a successful relationship.

8. Not respecting his personality

When he's just sitting or don't feel like talking, leave him alone and don't boggle him with questions. It's men's nature to keep mute and solve problems internally.


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How to Flirt With a Guy: Flirt Moves No Man Can Resist

Flirt can seem like an impossible task. But it's easier than you think!. Flirtation is a trick some girls have and some don't. If you want to entice a sexy stranger or a friend you have more than friends feelings for, master the following guides on how to flirt with any guy without making the first move.

But when you're flirting with a guy, don't ever make the first move because guys hate desperate girls. If you could master these tricks, any guy would find you desirable in no time.

1.  Smile and laugh: Studies have shown that smiling attracts men. his talking. Smiling makes you look friendlier and more approachable. Show your pearly whites while he's talking.

Guys stay away from surly girls even if they're attractive. Smile a lot and laugh when the guy you're flirting with is talking. This will draw is attention to you.

2.  Eye contact: Eye contact is one of the tricks to flirt with a guy. Look deeply into is eyes while he's talking and smile. Frequent eye contact and smile will get him more curious about you.

3.  Draw attention to your body: Guys are a visual creature. They are turned on by what they see. Draw his attention to your body and he will think of nothing else but you.

Don't fold your arms when you're with the guy you're flirting with, this will make you seem unapproachable. When next you're in the middle of a conversation, lick your lower lips, bite them gently and flutter your eyelids. This will make him weak in his knees.

4.  Flip your weave: Men are beguiled with cute hair. Men love it when girls run their hands through their hair. Flipping and playing with your hair in front of the guy you're flirting with will draw his attention to your lustrous look.

5.  playfully tease him: Teasing is a great flirting technique. Teasing a guy you're flirting with will make him feel special. But it's better to tease him in a comic way and let him try hard to satisfy you. i.e let him know if his joke isn't really funny or if he's trying too hard. This will make him try harder.

6.  Compliment him: Guys love to be complimented. If you like something about a guy, appreciate him for that and it will make him feel noticed.Appreciating a guys gesture positively will make you stick out in his mind.

7.  Physical contact: This is one of the best ways to flirt with a guy. It blows off guys mind when girls touch them. Touching the guy you're flirting with will make him feel comfortable to talk and flirt more.

Touch his forearm while you're talking, brush your finger on his cheek when he makes a funny joke or holds his hand when you're walking together along the street. This will make his jaw drop in awe.

8.  Be feminine: Men are attracted to physical traits. Look your very best around the guy you're flirting with, dress neatly and add more value to your appearance. This will make his heart skip a bit.

9.  Challenge him: When you're flirting with a guy, try playing a game together. Challenge him to a game and use that opportunity to flirt with him. You're foremost arousing his passions by challenging him. Men loved to be challenged and this will make him want more till he his hooked up.

10.  Make him feel special: It's very important to make the guy you're flirting with feel special. Make him feel special with your smile, body expressions, complement and flirty touch.

Doing this will make him think nothing else but you and would find you desirable in no time.


These ten tips are all you need on how to flirt with any guy without resisting you. If it's helpful please comment and share.

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How to Seduce a man: The psychological Secrets to Have Any Man you Want Instantly

Seducing a man can seem like an unassailable obstacle, especially if you are not familiar with seduction techniques. Learning to be a seductress involves a lot of fun but you need physical and virtual seduction techniques.

Seduction is not about throwing yourself at a man. It's about beguiling a guy with some perfect mystique's and body language to keep him sexually attracted to you.

If you want to learn how to make a guy scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you, follow these 10 easy tips to keep him wanting more and more till he his hooked up.

1.  Confidence: Men are more attracted to confidence. Some men believe after superficial qualities, personality and confidence is everything. Some men are more attracted to confidence than any other thing. Show him the positive side of you be confident and be yourself.

2. Dress in a flattering fashion: Men are more attracted to physical traits. Wearing clothes that look good on you is a great way to attract men. Men become turned on by what they see.

3.  Frequent eye contact: One of the first thing men notice about women at first sight, is their eye contact.The eyes can communicate sexiness and desire without a single word. Doing this frequently will get him more curious about you but don't over do it. You're trying to seduce him and not trying to let him know you like him.

4.  Often smile: Men can't resist a pleasant smile. A genuine smile catches their attention. Flash your pearly whites when talking to him and don't be a surly woman.

5.  Be awkward: Being awkward blow men's mind off easily. It's the most interesting and seductive way to seduce a man. You can do this by wearing a seductive cloth and accidentally drop something in his front then bend down to pick it. 

6.  Let him see the sexy side of you: Men got turned instantly by the sight of a young, shapely female body. Let him see your curves and sexy shaped body. When he sees this, he will definitely be attracted.

7. Flirt: Find a way to flirt with him. A little flirtation will get him interested. Come up with an activity to do together and use this chance to flirt with him. A little flirtation will make him want to continue the conversation till he his hooked up.

You can read: How to Flirt With Any Guy: Flirt Moves No Man Can Resist

8.  Lingering soft and unexpected touches: Use your body to flirt with him. Men can't resist soft touches from women. For example, place your hand on his knee while having a conversation with him, place your hands over is palm while walking. But don't over do it, pretend it's accidental. Don't forget to give him a chance to touch you.

9.  Don't be easily available: This is very tricky but the best way to get him addicted to you. When you'av got these few steps right, the guy you are seducing would already be attracted to you. When you are sure he likes you too, ignore him at times and stop giving him a lot of attention in other to make him know how special you are.

10.  Don't throw yourself at him: Don't let him know you like him. Men hate a desperate woman. Always make him wonder how serious you are even though you are laying a seduction trail for him. The more you chase him, the more he would be sexually addicted to you.

Now you have learned how to seduce any man to think of you and you only. I hope these tricks are helpful? please drop your comment below and share.

Top Seven Mistakes Men Make In a Relationship

A lot of men believed that they have to very wealthy and handsome before they can capture women's heart. Yes, I agree but it can't determine your relationship success with women. In fact, sometimes, it backfires.

Come to think of it: Have you heard or seen some women who collect money from their rich men to spend on their poor lover?. 

That means having a successful relationship with women is not about money or looks. But it's about knowing what women wants from men and not making the common mistakes most men make.

These are the common mistakes men should avoid in a relationship.

1.  Being too dependent: This is one of the traits that irritate women. It's good when both the partners act as each other's support system but women secretly dislike it when their man is too emotionally dependant on them. They don't want their man to look up to them always before making decisions. Don't be weak.

2.  Giving her often gifts: Everyone loves presents but it has a limit. Most men believe women are attracted by giving them various kinds of gifts. But this is very wrong because it takes value away from a relationship and she will think you don't deserve her that's why  you are showering her with expensive gifts in order to keep her around. Be wise.

3.  Always trying to please women: Most guys always try to please a woman by calling them always, complimenting them, e.t.c in order to prove they love them. But the fact is that woman secretly dislikes it. This is very wrong in a relationship.

Upsetting her at times is not a bad thing but don't harm or abuse her. 

4.  Not listening to them: relationship will be weakened when guys don't listen to their women. Always listen to them when they talk, understand them and know what they want. Your chances of winning her over will never be diminished because women love a good listener.

5.  Embrace your goal: When she sees you embracing your goal, she will be attracted to you because women want their man to be goal oriented. keep moving forward as a person,keep growing, keep pursuing your goals, and never stop trying. 

6.  Regular meeting: Men believe regular meeting with their woman at the beginning of their relationship is very important. But the fact is that "it doesn't attract real women". Trying to see woman daily with the aim of proving your love to her is very wrong. It takes away value from a relationship. It means you don't feel secured and you have no personality to impress her that's why you are trying to meet her regularly. Don't appear to be a weakling.

7. Not understanding relationship: Most men don't understand their relationship. A relationship needs a constant effort to be kept alive and healthy. Don't allow it to drive itself and don't forget romance. 

I hope these tips are helpful for men who are in relationships, and those who are about to jump into it.

How to Overcome The Fear of Asking a Girl Out

There are many people who are scared or shy to approach girls just because of rejection. This instinctive emotion paralysed and hinders us from asking a girl of our choice out.

Having a fear of rejection is something natural but you have to conquer this fear to get what you want. You may have all the good qualities women want from their man but all of them will be useless if you are scared or shy to approach women.

I learnt a lesson from a friend of mine who had a crush on this pretty girl, but he was scared of rejection to ask her out. some years later, they met in a shopping mall and he found out that she have feelings for him. He then told him how he felt about her too, then she replied: "Why didn't you tell me?" But it's too late because she had already gotten married. I hope this is a lesson for all men who are scared of rejection

Asking a girl out is not a tough task if you have the confidence in you. The following steps will help you overcome your fears and gain confidence to approach any woman of your choice.

Self-Esteem: Your level of influence starts with what you think about yourself. You have to think positive about yourself before you can convince someone else to think positive about you. If you believe you can do it, then you will without been scared.

Practise for your friends: Conquer your fears and shyness by approaching a girl for your friends and families. When you do this over and over again, you will see it's no big deal and the fears and shyness will vanish.

Fear not: Don't lose your confidence when women say "NO" because she isn't really rejecting you but there must be a reason for that. Just move on to the next woman that have the interest in you.

How to Ask a Woman Out: The Magic Secret to Have Any Woman you Want

Without this magical secrets, your success with a woman may never improve.Confessing your feelings is the stupidest thing you can ever do. If she doesn't like you, confessing won't make her attracted. Capturing a woman's heart is the first step to a relationship before asking her out.

These are the magic secrets

Stand out from the other guys: You have to make things different from other guys who approached her all day long. Don't ask her boring questions like other guys did. i.e did you have a boyfriend? you are looking good, can i take you out sometime? did you like me?
Just act as if you didn't care if she would date you or not.
Walk up and tease a woman, make a funny comment about her. like "wow, you're way cuter than other average women that are here...are you friendly or do you bite?....you can say "Hi" after she says "Hi" back, follow up with "I knew it. You're friendly." She will ask how you know........then break out with cocky and funny.
If she responds by smiling of laughing e.t.c it means she's interested in hearing more. Continue breaking the ice with cocky and jokes for some minutes then tell her you'av  to go now that you are very busy but you will like to continue the conversation with her. Then ask for her contact number.

Don't be surprised if she gives you her contact without hesitating because women like a guy with the sense of humour.

The most amazing thing is that you'av made her guessing and asking herself, who is this guy that's different from other guys? What did he want?

Did you know why she's doing this? because you have the sense of humour and you show no romantic feelings.

Now you are in the game: Now the door is opened, it's left to you to step trough it. wait a day or two before calling her.

When you call her, don't ask questions instead, continue the fun mood you created when you first met her. Then towards the end your conversation, tell her what you are doing and she's free to join you. "hey, I'm going to a restaurant, can you  join me? If she hesitates, don't force her. Instead, say " wow, you're considering missing out this fun? Okay.......then tell her you are going, even if you're not.

Just keep making things different and you will get a huge result.