How to Flirt With Your Boss Without Getting Fired

Did you like your boss and you don't want it to affect your job? You can make your boss love you, and respect you as a person without affecting your job or professional relationship.

Flirting with your boss in nothing new because a large percentage of married couples found each other at their workplace. Read this blog and start flirting with your boss without being sacked.

1.  Be confident

Confidence is the key. You won't be able to flirt effectively if you're not confident enough. You visualize success instead of fearing failure.

Having a fear of rejection is something natural but you have to conquer this fear in other to get what you want. You may have all the qualities your boss wants in women but it will be useless if you're scared or shy to flirt with your boss.

2. Be yourself

No one would want to build a relationship with a phony person. So don't be somebody you're not and don't try to impress your boss. The essence of flirting with your boss is to get on a date with him. If he should find out that you're a phony person, he will be turned off immediately and this will ruin your efforts to  make him like you.

3.  Be feminine

When you're flirting with your boss, dress attractively without violating the dress code of your workplace. I don't mean you should dress like someone going to Aso Rock to meet the president. Dress smartly and use pieces of jewelry.

Wear clothes that will bring out the very best in you and learn how to use your makeup. This will attract him because men are turned on by what they see.

4.  Choose a good scent

Men like girls who smell good. You have to smell good in the presence of your boss. You can easily get him attracted to you when you smell incredibly good. Choose the right perfume and don't spray too much.

5.  Be a good listener

Listening attentively to your boss while he is talking is very important while flirting. Listen to whatever he says even if you aren't interested in the conversation. Ask some questions about what he said and give a funny comment on it. This shows your enthusiasm and makes you look approachable.

6.  Make eye contact

This is very important while flirting.Eye contact is an effective tool that can make someone like you. Eye contact can communicate your interest without saying a word.

Try to make eye contact with your boss during a meeting, when he's talking to you or complimenting you. But be very careful here not to over do. Too much eye contact can make you seem desperate and it's a big turn-off to men.

7.  Smile

This is another flirtatious trick. Smiling attracts men easily. When next you're having a conversation with him, flash your pearly whites. Smiling makes you look friendlier and more approachable. If you want to make him like you, you'av to smile at him because men can't approach a surly woman.

8.  Compliment him

Guys love to be complimented. If you like something about your boss, appreciate him for that. This will make him feel noticed.Appreciating your boss gesture positively will make you stick out in his mind.

9.  Use your hair

Men are beguiled with cute hair. Men love it when girls run their hands through their hair. Flipping and playing with your hair in front of the boss you're flirting with will draw his attention to your lustrous look.

10.  Be nice to everyone

He will definitely notice you if you're nice to everyone instead of him alone. Treat everyone at your workplace the way you treat your boss and be a cool person. The more you do this, the more he would  be attracted to you.

11.  Pay attention to signals

When you're flirting with your boss make sure you pay a close attention to his signals. If he's reciprocating your eye contact and smile, it means you're getting positive results then you can continue. But if he's not reciprocating your smiles and eye contact, it means you're getting negative results and it's advisable you stop flirting immediately in other not to embarrassed.

12. Linger soft touches

This is another flirty move to convey your interest on your boss. Linger soft touches on your boss while he's talking to you and pretend it wasn't intentional. This will make him think of you often.

Don't try this with your boss if you're not getting positive results.

13.  Be subtle

The purpose of flirting is to express your feelings indirectly. So make your moves in a subtle way and don't let anyone in your workplace know about this.

Smile a little, laugh a little, flip your weave a bit and don't hold too much eye contact.


Tips

• Learn to keep cool at work. Offices are a gossipy environment, so calm down when someone gets you angry. This will make him notice you.
• Give suggestions on how to solve a problem instead of complaining. This will make your boss think of you
• Try to finish your assigned project on or before the deadline. This is also helpful.
• Be punctual and hard working.

Warning

• Be attentive to how you're being received. If you're getting a negative result, stop immediately.
• Avoid sexual touches at your workplace. Example: Shoulder rubs, placing hands on someone's knees. e.t.c.
• Make a research on relationship guidelines of your workplace before proceeding. If a relationship is not allowed in your workplace, it's better you don't flirt in other not to lose your job.

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